What is Anxiety?
Imagine feeling fine one moment and then suddenly overwhelmed by fear, as if something terrible is about to happen. That’s what a panic attack can feel like. According to the DSM-5, a panic attack is an abrupt surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes, during which four or more of the following symptoms may occur:
These episodes can feel intense and frightening, but you are not alone. With the right support and strategies, panic attacks can be understood and managed.
Constantly anticipating the next panic attack? That’s essentially what panic disorder involves: a distressing cycle of unexpected panic attacks, accompanied by ongoing worry about having more.
Have you ever felt anxious about being in a place where it might be hard to escape or where help might not be close by (especially if you were to suddenly experience panic-like symptoms)? That’s what agoraphobia can feel like. It often leads to avoiding situations like going out alone, being in crowded places, or using public transport. It’s a very real and distressing experience.
Do you often find yourself caught in a cycle of worry that won’t let up for no apparent reason? If that anxious feeling is present on most days for six months or more, and it’s hard to control, it may be something more than everyday stress. This is what we call Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD).
People with GAD often worry about a number of events or activities and find it difficult to control the worry. Alongside this, they may experience symptoms such as:
Living with GAD can be exhausting, affecting not only your sleep and concentration but also your mood and physical wellbeing.
Have you ever found yourself stuck in a loop of upsetting thoughts that won’t go away? Perhaps you might even feel compelled to do something to make the anxiety ease. That’s a glimpse into what OCD can feel like.
According to the DSM-5, OCD involves the presence of obsessions, compulsions, or both. Obsessions are recurrent and persistent thoughts, urges, or images that feel intrusive and unwanted. They often cause significant anxiety or distress. Many people try to ignore or suppress these thoughts, or attempt to neutralise them with certain actions or mental rituals.
Compulsions are the repeated behaviours or mental acts a person feels driven to perform in response to these obsessions, in an effort to reduce the anxiety or prevent something bad from happening. Though these actions may bring temporary relief, they usually reinforce the cycle, making the intrusive thoughts return.
Do you ever feel overwhelming fear or panic at the thought or sight of something specific, even when you know it isn’t truly dangerous? That’s what a specific phobia can feel like. What makes a phobia different from ordinary fear is that the response is out of proportion to the actual danger. Ordinary items and experiences such as spiders, heights, needles, or flying can trigger insurmountable anxiety. More than discomfort, specific phobias often create a strong urge to avoid the object or situation to prevent dread from taking hold. For a diagnosis, this pattern of fear and avoidance is usually persistent, lasting six months or more.
Does speaking up, meeting new people, or being the centre of attention give you immense anxiety? Triggered by everyday activities like giving a presentation, attending a dinner, or even chatting in a group, social phobia is more than just nerves and discomfort. It’s a heavy and debilitating experience that often causes people to avoid triggering situations altogether or endure with intense distress.
If you are experiencing these phenomena, you may wish to seek support to manage the overwhelming signs of anxiety:
Psychotherapy can help with uncovering the causes of your worries and fears and to provide you with a toolbox of skills for relaxation and enhance your coping and problem-solving strategies.
Therapy gives you the chance to understand your anxiety better and learn practical ways to manage it. Here are some of the ways it can help:
You’ll learn techniques such as relaxation methods, breathing exercises, and everyday routines that can calm your body and mind when anxiety shows up.
Therapy helps you recognise the situations or thoughts that trigger your anxiety, and equips you with strategies to reduce their impact.
Through approaches like cognitive behavioural techniques, you’ll discover how to notice unhelpful thinking and gradually replace it with more balanced, constructive thoughts.
You’ll develop the ability to cope with life’s challenges in a calmer, more flexible way, so you can bounce back quicker when setbacks happen.
Anxiety can affect sleep, focus, and self-belief. Therapy supports you in restoring confidence, so you feel more capable in your daily life.
Above all, therapy gives you a confidential, non-judgemental place where you can share your worries openly, knowing you will be heard and supported.
Therapy gives you tools and support to manage anxiety. This might include learning practical techniques, exploring thought patterns, or simply having a safe space to talk.
Everyone’s journey is different. Some people feel better within a few weeks, while for others it may take a few months or years. Therapy is always tailored to your pace and needs.
Yes. Both online and face-to-face sessions can be effective. The best choice is whichever format feels most comfortable and accessible for you.
Not always. Many people benefit from therapy alone, while others find a combination of therapy and medication works best. The right approach depends on your personal circumstances and can be discussed with a professional.