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The Marriage Preparation Programme (MPP) at EMCC is a comprehensive course designed to help couples establish a strong foundation for their marriage. By participating in this course, couples can gain valuable insights and skills to navigate the challenges of married life and build a lasting, fulfilling relationship.

What is a Marriage Preparation Course?

Understanding the Importance of Marriage Preparation in Singapore

Marriage preparation courses provide couples with the tools and knowledge necessary to build a solid foundation for their future together.

In Singapore, such courses are gaining popularity as couples increasingly recognise the importance of being well-prepared for marriage, especially in navigating challenges and expectations.

Components of a Marriage Preparation Programme

Communication Skills: Learn effective communication strategies to ensure a healthy dialogue between partners.

Conflict Resolution: Equip yourself with techniques for resolving disagreements constructively.

Financial Planning: Gain insights into managing finances together and setting financial goals as a couple.

Family Planning and Parenting: Understand how to approach family planning and raise children together as a team.

How Does the Course Benefit Couples?

Strengthening Relationships: Provides the tools to enhance emotional intimacy and resolve potential conflicts.

Building Long-Term Foundations: Couples leave with a clearer understanding of their shared values, expectations, and goals.

Preparing for Future Challenges: Helps couples prepare for the transitions that come with marriage, including managing finances and starting a family.

Who Should Attend a Marriage Preparation Programme?

A marriage preparation course is ideal for any couple planning to get married, whether it’s their first marriage or a second. It is particularly beneficial for:

Engaged Couples: Couples preparing for their upcoming wedding can learn essential skills to ensure a strong, healthy marriage from the start.

Remarried Couples: Couples who are marrying for the second time can gain valuable insights to navigate new relationship dynamics.

Newlyweds: Couples within their first year of marriage can benefit from the tools and strategies to enhance their partnership as they adjust to married life.

This course is designed for couples who wish to proactively address potential challenges, deepen their connection, and strengthen their relationship for the long term.

Topics Covered In Our Marriage Preparation Programme

Our marriage preparation course covers essential topics to help couples build a strong foundation for a lasting relationship.

Family of Origin

Exploring the influence of each partner’s upbringing on their relationship dynamics. Understanding how past family experiences shape current behaviours and expectations.

In-law Relationships

Navigating the complexities of relationships with extended family members. Strategies for maintaining harmony and setting healthy boundaries.

Marital Expectations & Roles

Aligning expectations regarding responsibilities, roles, and shared goals within the marriage. Open discussions to ensure mutual understanding and agreement.

Managing Conflicts

Developing effective conflict resolution skills. Techniques to address disagreements constructively and strengthen the relationship.

Communication

Enhancing communication skills to foster understanding and connection. Emphasis on active listening, empathy, and clear expression.

Personality Scales

Assessing individual personality traits to understand differences and similarities. Utilising tools like the Enneagram or Myers-Briggs Type Indicator to improve compatibility.

Sexual Intimacy & Family Planning

Addressing topics related to sexual health, intimacy, and family planning. Open conversations to align on desires and expectations.

Children & Parenting

Discussing approaches to parenting, including discipline, education, and shared responsibilities. Preparing for the challenges and joys of raising children together.

Financial Planning & Management

Creating a joint financial plan that aligns with both partners’ values and goals. Topics include budgeting, saving, and managing expenses collaboratively.

What to Expect from the Marriage Preparation Sessions?

Gain practical tools and insights to strengthen your relationship, improve communication, and prepare for a successful marriage.

Overview of the Marriage Preparation Course Structure

The Marriage Preparation Programme (MPP) at EMCC offers two distinct formats to cater to different preferences:

Individual Couple Sessions: Tailored one-on-one sessions with a qualified facilitator, providing personalised guidance and support.
Group Programme: Interactive workshops conducted over two sessions, allowing couples to engage with others and share experiences.

Both formats are designed to equip couples with essential skills and insights for a strong and lasting marriage.

Course Fees for Marriage Preparation Workshops

EMCC strives to make the Marriage Preparation Programme accessible to all couples. Fees vary based on the chosen format. For detailed information on current fees and available financial assistance, please refer to the official EMCC website or contact their team directly.

Duration and Completion Requirements

Individual Couple Sessions: Each session typically lasts 2 hours.
Group Programme: Consists of two sessions, each lasting approximately 4 hours.

To successfully complete the programme, couples are required to attend all scheduled sessions and actively participate in discussions and activities.

Types of Sessions Offered for Marriage Preparation Programme

Group session for marriage preparation course in Singapore

Individual Couple Session

This format offers personalised, one-on-one sessions tailored to each couple’s unique needs. Couples work closely with a qualified facilitator to address specific concerns and goals, ensuring a customised approach to their relationship preparation.

Group Programme Session

In this format, couples participate in group sessions alongside other couples. The group setting allows for shared learning experiences, discussions, and support, fostering a sense of community and mutual growth among participants.

How to Prepare for the Marriage Preparation Programme?

Complete the Required Forms and Assessment

Once you’ve registered for the programme, you’ll receive a form to provide your personal particulars. You and your partner will also be asked to complete the Prepare/Enrich Assessment, a valuable tool that helps your facilitator understand your relationship dynamics and personalise the sessions accordingly.

What to Bring to the Sessions?

Bring a notebook and pen for taking notes, and be prepared to actively participate in discussions. If attending a group session, consider bringing any materials or pre-session assignments shared by the facilitator.

Setting Personal Goals for the Course

Before attending, reflect on what you hope to achieve through the programme, whether it’s improving communication, resolving conflicts, or understanding each other’s expectations. Setting clear goals will help you focus during the course.

What Skills Will Couples Learn During the Marriage Preparation Programme?

Attending a marriage preparation course in Singapore can be an incredibly valuable experience for couples looking to strengthen their relationship before taking that big step.

Strengthening Communication Skills for Deeper Connection

One of the main perks is learning how to communicate better with each other.

Let’s face it – misunderstandings happen in every relationship, but when you know how to talk things through clearly and openly, it can help you connect on a deeper level.

Building Emotional Intimacy and Managing Disagreements

Another significant advantage is learning how to handle disagreements. Every couple argues at some point, but these courses give you practical ways to resolve conflicts without letting things spiral out of control. You’ll also get a chance to work on building emotional intimacy. Through guided discussions and engaging activities, you’ll learn how to become even more connected and supportive of each other.

Addressing Key Tension Points and Creating a Shared Vision for the Future

Marriage preparation courses often explore common areas of tension that couples encounter, such as financial expectations, lifestyle habits, in-law dynamics, and holiday celebrations. By discussing these topics openly, you’ll gain tools to navigate potential challenges together, helping to create harmony and mutual understanding. These programmes also provide a chance to talk about your broader goals, values, and dreams, aligning with the life you both want to build for the future.

Proactively Addressing Concerns to Prevent Escalation

The course also allows you to address any potential concerns before they become bigger problems. Whether it’s differences in family dynamics or personal habits, talking about them now can save a lot of trouble later.

Guided Support from Experienced Facilitators

You’ll be guided by experienced facilitators who’ve worked with countless couples, so you’ll get practical, down-to-earth advice and support.

Overall, signing up for a marriage preparation course in Singapore can give you the tools you need to build a strong, happy marriage. It’s a great way to prepare for the future together.

FAQs about the Marriage Preparation Programme

Find answers to common questions about our Marriage Preparation Programme, including details on sessions, fees, and more.

What Happens if I Am Unable to Attend Due to an Emergency?

If you are unable to attend the Marriage Preparation Programme due to a valid emergency, such as a medical issue (with supporting documentation like an MC), please inform us as soon as possible. We understand that unforeseen situations may arise, and we will do our best to support you. Do note that cancellation fees may apply in cases where the reason provided is not considered valid. For further assistance, including information about rescheduling or potential refunds, please contact us. Our team is here to help you navigate any challenges.

Can I Attend the Sessions Alone if My Fiancé/Fiancée Is Unable to Join?

Both partners must attend the Marriage Preparation Programme together, as the course is designed for couples to engage and grow through shared discussions and activities. If your fiancé or fiancée is unable to attend, please contact us to discuss alternative arrangements and options for completing the programme.

How Long Is the Marriage Preparation Programme at EMCC?

At EMCC, the Marriage Preparation Programme is offered in two formats. For individual couples, the programme consists of four sessions, each lasting two hours. For group sessions, the programme is conducted over two Saturdays, with each session lasting four hours. Both formats are designed to provide a meaningful and structured experience to support your relationship journey. For more details on the programme structure, please explore our Marriage Journey page. We aim to provide a comprehensive experience that fits your schedule and supports your relationship preparation.

Is Follow-Up Support Provided After Completing the Marriage Preparation Programme?

Yes, EMCC offers follow-up support after completing the Marriage Preparation Programme to ensure that couples continue to grow and thrive. If you feel the need for further guidance, we provide professional marriage counselling in Singapore to help navigate any challenges. Our experienced facilitator are here to support you in maintaining a healthy, lasting relationship.